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Do you suspect that your partner has been cheating? You may be experiencing a troubling intuition that things aren’t right with your relationship. Our intuitive feelings about relationships are surprisingly accurate.

In fact, studies have shown that our suspicions about a cheating spouse tend to be correct. It always helps to have some objective things or signs to look out for that give support to our suspicions. After all, a false accusation can be very damaging to a relationship.

Here are 5 signs that your partner is cheating.

1.) Unusual cell phone calls.

Check for odd phone numbers on your spouses cell phone. Cheating is not possible without a lot of communication and cell phone technology is perfect for this. Look for phone numbers with a lot of calls occurring at unusual hours.

2.) More time not spent with you.

Has you partner been spending lots of time elsewhere? How about a sharp increase in work hours?

Have there been “business trips” lasting several days? What matters is that the time spent away from you has increased dramatically, showing no sign of letting up.

3.) Greater money expenditure.

Is there a greater expenditure on items that you never see around or at restaurants you’ve never eaten at? If there are dated receipts, do you know where the two of you were at the time? Were both of you apart or together?

If you were apart, do the receipts concur with where or what your partner said they were doing? Have you noticed any increases in cash withdrawals?

4.) Improvement in attire.

Has your partner’s wardrobe grown in size? Is she or he buying clothing that’s appropriate for social outings? Outings that you don’t get to participate in?

Is your spouse too well dressed when seeing a “buddy”? Maybe your spouse is overdressed when going out to the “usual places”.

5.) Contradictions and inconsistencies.

Do your spouses words and actions add up? Does your spouse change the details of his or her activities?

Lies are hard to keep up with. The liar will eventually slip up with their excuses and explanations. When you’re alone, record specifics and details for your own reference.

When your spouse cheats on you, the experience is wounding and painful. Always take extra care in getting the facts straight before speaking to your partner about it.

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